"Between stimulus and response there is a space.In that space is our power to choose our own response.In our response lies our growth and freedom." In other words if you find yourself reacting automatically to something you have no power. For instance when you feel that burning desire to smoke bhang, a cigar or drink alcohol, and find yourself leaving an important event, example dowry, marriage, ordination or even coronation to have your drug of choice, you are soo powerless.This simply means you cannot have your choice in anything, other people or other factors, will control you.Now when it is at this stage you are" just there", you died long time ago, only that you are be seen and have not died naturally.But spiritually and mentally you stopped living long time ago. Just remember when you loose control of yourself, others will control you for their own benefit.And to them its a great thing because alone you cannot effect anything.They will think for you and make you only survive, perhaps have a daily bread and sustain the daily use of your drug of choice, but for getting money and wealth, "forget", this two you will be seeing them written on the pages of a newspaper.They will never come your way. Lastly money and wealth loves those that seduces them, but not those who uses them because they are in pocession of them. When you use all you have because tomorrow you will be working and get some other money, my friend you will never get anywhere close to having cash.